Lent 5A 2005

Ezekiel 37:1-14

Psalm 130

Romans 8:6-11

John 11:1-45

 

 

Can these bones live?  God asks Ezekiel today in the first lesson.  Can these bones live?  

 

Good question.     I asked that question this past week when I went to a Mission Developers meeting in Des Moines.   We were to meet at St. Paul Lutheran,  on the East side,  just south of University.   Wow.   Tough neighborhood,  right next to a big high school.  I parked right behind a car covered in gang logos.   The church building was looking pretty decrepit.  The congregation that owned it,  St. Paul’s,  is worshipping 25 on a Sunday,  all over the age of 70.   Can these bones live?

 

I was also reading,  this past week,  a novel by my favorite British author,  Iris Murdach.  The Word Child, is a fascinating story of a man who is busy denying life.

 

The story is told by this man,  Hilary.   He had a very tough childhood but went on to Oxford University on scholarships.   But there he fell in love with his Don’s wife  (dean?).   They had a fling but when she came to tell him it was over, and by the way,  she was pregnant with her husbands child,

Hilary took her out for a drive.

 

And there was an accident,  or was it?,  and she was killed.

 

The novel opens some 20 years later.  Hilary has managed to control his anger,  his guilt,  his life,  by the  careful scheduling and the repressing of his talents.

 

But now,  the husband shows up and who nows what will happen?

 

Hilary’s carefully controlled world is about to break open…

 

Will he get a chance to live?  OR will he continue in his self-imposed world of carefully controlled and miserable daily existance?

 

He has spent a lot of energy on keeping the door of emotions shut.

 

You know what I mean?  He is so afraid of the past in his closet,  the guilt and pain and shame,  that he is spending every waking minute trying to the world around him,  that he is not really living.  Just surviving. 

 

Can these bones live?

 

But what if,  what if the door opens and the past enters  the room and it has lost its power?  

 

We spend a lot of energy keeping life under control.  We spend a lot of energy and money keeping life under our control

 

All right,  lets be honest,  in 21st century America we spend a lot of energy and  money and time keeping death in the closet.

 

For we all want to look younger,  live longer,   be happier.  And we certainly don’t want to be reminded that all flesh is grass.  That dust we are and to dust we shall return.

 

So we pay other people to deal with the reminders that life is fragile and comes to an end.   We put our elderly in homes,  our dead in fancy coffins.

And we have “Celebrations of Life  instead of funerals.   And many folks will skip the services of Holy Week and try to cut straight to Easter.

 

Used to be,  when someone died,  the body staying in the house and everyone came to sit with the grieving.    I remember an older woman telling me many times about seeing her dead sister in her little coffin in the middle of the dining room table.

 

Now we don’t even see the coffin go in the ground,  we aren’t able to put dirt on the cover.   We keep our distance.   pay our respects, and generally  avoid the grieving.   

 

We don’t want to think about death.  That it will happen to all of us someday.  That not a soul in this room will be able to avoid that.

 

What would happen if we looked death in the face?   What if we stopped avoiding pain,  covering up our hurt,  keeping the closet door shut?

 

What if we could be honest with one another and with God about  what the world works so hard to avoid thinking about?  Death and loss and grief?

 

Time to think about today’s story.   The raising of Lazarus… a powerful story in many ways.  

 

Here we have Lazarus who was sick unto death.  His sisters, Mary and Martha sent for Jesus.  

 

Jesus came,  too late.

 

And we have the moving cry of Martha,  echoes later by Mary,  “Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died.”   

 

How many times throughout the centuries has that cry been repeated?  Lord, if you had been here,  my mother would not have died…my sister, my friend,  my child…

 

Lord,  if you had been here…the weeping cry of the people of God faced with death.   If you had been here… if you had been here…

 

Mary and Martha know the power of Jesus,  that Jesus is life.     And Martha proclaims this…”Yes, Lord,  I believe that you are the Messiah, the Son of God, the one coming into the world.”   

 

Yes, Lord, I believe,  but still my brother has been in the tomb for 4 days.  His flesh is rotting,  his spirit has flown….  

 

Jesus sees Martha’s grief.   He sees Mary’s grief.  He listens to their cries.  He sees their faces.   And he is deeply moved.  And Jesus joins the cry of the grieving.   Jesus began to weep.

 

No macho control here.   Jesus is overcome with emotion and not afraid to share his tears.     

 

And in our grief and pain Jesus shares our tears.     The story could end here.  It is enough for me to know that Jesus wept.

 

But it goes on,  Jesus goes to the tomb.   And looks death in the face…

 

And calls out;  Lazarus,  Come out!”

 

And the dead man came out,  the bones live,   and many of the Jews therefore  who had come with Mary and had seen what Jesus did, believed in him.

 

Wow.   Lazarus has his second chance at life.  The family is restore for the time being.  Lazarus  will  die again,  his time will come.  But for now,  there is new life and new hope.  Jesus has looked death in the eye and wept.  And then acted.   And life happened.

 

The irony of this story is happens in the next few verses,  the ones we don’t have today.    The very next verse says:  “But some of them went to the Pharisees and told them what he had done.  So the chief priests and the Pharisees called a meeting of the council and said, “What are we to do?  This man is performing many signs.”  … So from that day on they planned to put him to death.”

 

Jesus had to know this.  He was already cast out of the synagogue.  his love was already making enemies.   And then he goes to Bethany near Jerusalem and publicly,  in front of many witnesses,  gives Lazurus new life.   It does,  as we might say,  drive another nail in the coffin.

 

For this is the beginning of the end of Jesus days on earth.   For if we are to deal with Jesus,  we have to deal with the compassion of Jesus.  If we are to deal with Jesus,  we have to come to terms with Jesus breaking the rules and talking to enemy women and eating with sinners and raising strange old men back to life.

 

If we are to take Jesus seriously,  we have to take both what Jesus said and how he lived,  and how he died seriously.  

 

For even at the end,  Jesus looked death squarely in the face.   He knew what lay ahead and went forward anyway.   Without anquish?  yes,  Grief?  Yes?   Fear?  no.

 

For death doesn’t have to have the final say.  It doesn’t have to rule our lives.   It doesn’t have to scare us into trying to keep it at arms length.

 

When I was a hospice chaplain,  the most amazing part of life  I was privileged to witness was the honest facing of death.    It was a beautiful thing for the people who trusted in God’s presence.    People who had lived fully,  knowing the end of this life comes to all people.

 

So what would life be like if we were no longer afraid?  If we no longer worked so hard to deny death?   If we let those old wounds and hurts and shame  out  only to find out they fade away when hit by the light of day.

 

What would life be like if we treated every day as a gift to be shared with others?   If we treated every person as a beloved child of God?  If we reminded one another that Jesus wept too,  without shame.

 

If we remembered that Jesus is Lord of both the living and the dead.   

 

What would life be like if we quit denying part of it and lived all of it?

 

In my novel,  Hilary comes face to face with the past,  and after some stumbling about,  learns to let go at last.    To forgive others but most of all to forgive himself.   And then,  in the end of the book,  life begins to happen,  the bones live and not only Hilary,  but the people closest to Hilary begin to have life.   These bones live!

 

And in real life,  that dying little congregation in Des Moines shares it’s facilities,  with some tension,  with a new mission congregation.  A Laotian one.    We met Pastor Bouma who comes from Thailand.  He has over 70 folk worshipping on a Sunday in Laotian.   A growing Sunday School in English for their children.  A vibrant youth ministry,  an amazing presence in the immigrant community that that particular neighborhood has become.

 

And the bones live!    St. Paul Lutheran in Des Moines looks different than it used to,  the congregation sounds different….but they are alive and growing in a new way.      One of the ministries next week special 20/20  Vision for Mission offering will go to.  

 

What a joy,  in the midst of all the dead bones,  the old debates,  the cynicism that surround even the church,  to see such new life!

 

Can these bones live?   The answer, at last,  will surprise us all with the force of it’s  YES!  WITH THE HELP OF GOD!

 

AMEN